Great Ways to Meet New People

I know have a lot of friends who are uncomfortable in social situations, who struggle to come out of their shell. Here are some ways to come out of your shell and meet new people.

1.) If you have an interest, join a club!

This doesn't just include school. If you look, you'll find clubs for almost anything. There are crochet and knitting groups you can join, political groups, social groups...Google it! I even have a friend who has a video game group who frequently has parties. You'd be surprised by how many different groups may exist around you. If there is something you're passionate about, maybe you should consider making your own group.

I've heard a lot recently about Live Action Role Plays. Even if you're not sure how to participate, my friends say that it is a lot of fun and also a great way to meet new people. If you aren’t sure how to participate but are interested, usually people are more than happy to help you learn.

2.) Open Mike

This is another way to experiment socially. There's a frequent open-mike night at least on coffee shop in every town I've ever been too. If you like performing, maybe you could participate too. But just going to see the acts is a great way to socialize and enjoy the local talent.

3.) Try out new restaurants!

This one is an extension of the one above. Trying a new restaurant may be a good way to branch out, try some good food, and maybe even meet new people. Usually coffee shops work pretty well for socializing too.

4.) Reach out to friends of friends

One of the most frustrating things for me, when meeting new people is when I'm introduced to a friend of a friend and I really hit it off but don't ask for their number or try to get any closer to them. Friends of friends are great people to make friends with because you probably already have some things in common and know a little about each other through your mutual friend.

5.) Reach out to your neighbors!

I live in an apartment complex that has a handful of social events in the summer. I only recently moved in so I haven't had time to attend any of these events but I'm planning on attending the next one that pops up. A neighbor makes a great fun, if not for any other reason because you don't have to drive across town to see them.

Overall, the best thing you can do to meet people, I believe is to push the limits of your comfort zone. If you stay cooped up in your house all of the time of Facebook or playing video games you'll miss out on great opportunities to make lifelong friendships.